We have a well and our waterline going into the house is 1.5 inches. Our interior water lines aren’t 1.5 inch so that’s why I’m thinking I can use an adapter to 1 inch. We don’t want to drastically lose water pressure though. Please let me know your thoughts and if it’s advisable.
I would do it. I am not a pro.
You mention your interior lines aren't 1.5" but didn't specify the main line size. To comply with plumbing code, the connection to the softener is not to be reduced so if the main distribution line through your home is 1", then a 1" softner connection should be appropriate.
Here is a snip from 2015 version of UPC I found on
http://epubs.iapmo.org/UPC/mobile/index.html#p=143
The way I see it, the main thing is to analyze the flow needs, and in the absence of pressure drop information, the diameter thing comes into play. If the flow from the softener an at an acceptable pressure drop to supply the downstream fixtures, things are good.
Even if there was a literal code violation, and I think it is probably not in my non-professional opinion, they are not going to gig Jeremy.