Hi all. I registered here because of all of the conflicting info I'm getting across the board. I have a private well at my house and it's my first well ever. I put my own 20" big blue water filter system on myself and am quite handy, so this should be right up my wheelhouse. I have a total hardness of 38mg/l or 2.2gpg water hardness. Here is a picture of my quality report.
I have a family of 4 and I'd rather estimate on the high side. I figure I'd just get the 64k unit from my local hardware store and be done with it but I wanted someone else to chime in. My high estimate math is: 400gal * 2.5gpg = 900gpg per day. 7 day cycle * 900gpg = 6300gpg per week. 75% efficiency unit would mean that I need a 10,000 grain unit.
There are two conditions I'd like to solve here.
1) I have a master glass shower that has water spots on it now after living here 6 months. I didn't blade the water off and now I'm stuck trying to scrub these spots off with 000-gauge steel wool because no cleaner has removed the spots so far. I've tried CLR, rubbing compound, vinegar, magic eraser, etc. I have since bought a blade and squeegee the walls and floor after every shower now which kinda sucks but whatever.
2) I have a slight iron coloration after about 2 weeks in the toilet bowl. I have looked into this and found it's probably clear iron as opposed to normal rust colored iron.
What softener would I need to handle these two situations?

I have a family of 4 and I'd rather estimate on the high side. I figure I'd just get the 64k unit from my local hardware store and be done with it but I wanted someone else to chime in. My high estimate math is: 400gal * 2.5gpg = 900gpg per day. 7 day cycle * 900gpg = 6300gpg per week. 75% efficiency unit would mean that I need a 10,000 grain unit.
There are two conditions I'd like to solve here.
1) I have a master glass shower that has water spots on it now after living here 6 months. I didn't blade the water off and now I'm stuck trying to scrub these spots off with 000-gauge steel wool because no cleaner has removed the spots so far. I've tried CLR, rubbing compound, vinegar, magic eraser, etc. I have since bought a blade and squeegee the walls and floor after every shower now which kinda sucks but whatever.
2) I have a slight iron coloration after about 2 weeks in the toilet bowl. I have looked into this and found it's probably clear iron as opposed to normal rust colored iron.
What softener would I need to handle these two situations?