ChiefEngineer
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I have gotten to the point a number of times where I needed some help. I called. What always
happens is someome asks: "what is your address". We then get further by trying to get some vague idea of if or when
they might show up....which almost always has no definite outcome...like they have to subcontract someone
they have to coordinate with.
After getting no real idea "if or when" they might really come out I simply would close the call
with "I'll call you if I can't get somebody sooner".
I've done this enough times now over about 4 years, when my well situation started to decline. I discovered
that even though I only gave a general description of where I was (there is no mailbox address), they had, in fact, tried to show up
to help. I had my old notes calling again, described things, and they would "recall" my property and ask if I had a locked gate, which I do.
I considered this over-the-top-friendly-helpful to the point where I truly think that it might be standard etiquette that if
someone gives you an address that means it's OK for them to do whatever they want. Being from another part of the world
I have always been leery of this because it was used in court as a defense by people who would do things uninvited and
then claim they were given permission...not that "well guys" would do anything really bad. But that is why I was clear.
They also seem miffed at being stonewalled by a barrier, even years later, and stated they would "keep me
on their books for the future" or something like that...like they had been doing me an enormous favor, as if they might have
been paramedics. Perhaps I don't quite grasp the whole picture...but I had thought they were just asking for location to
research water table depth, not arrive whenever.
I have had many people over the years sit at my locked gate, far from the house, and continuously honk to get someone
to see what they wanted, like that was normal. Where I learned to live that sort of behavior never worked out very well,
so I am thinking this is some sort of cultural norm I am unaccustomed to, even after decades of living here.
happens is someome asks: "what is your address". We then get further by trying to get some vague idea of if or when
they might show up....which almost always has no definite outcome...like they have to subcontract someone
they have to coordinate with.
After getting no real idea "if or when" they might really come out I simply would close the call
with "I'll call you if I can't get somebody sooner".
I've done this enough times now over about 4 years, when my well situation started to decline. I discovered
that even though I only gave a general description of where I was (there is no mailbox address), they had, in fact, tried to show up
to help. I had my old notes calling again, described things, and they would "recall" my property and ask if I had a locked gate, which I do.
I considered this over-the-top-friendly-helpful to the point where I truly think that it might be standard etiquette that if
someone gives you an address that means it's OK for them to do whatever they want. Being from another part of the world
I have always been leery of this because it was used in court as a defense by people who would do things uninvited and
then claim they were given permission...not that "well guys" would do anything really bad. But that is why I was clear.
They also seem miffed at being stonewalled by a barrier, even years later, and stated they would "keep me
on their books for the future" or something like that...like they had been doing me an enormous favor, as if they might have
been paramedics. Perhaps I don't quite grasp the whole picture...but I had thought they were just asking for location to
research water table depth, not arrive whenever.
I have had many people over the years sit at my locked gate, far from the house, and continuously honk to get someone
to see what they wanted, like that was normal. Where I learned to live that sort of behavior never worked out very well,
so I am thinking this is some sort of cultural norm I am unaccustomed to, even after decades of living here.