Softener drains can have negative, no, or positive affects on different plants and different soils. When i first started doing softening repairs 35 years ago I told a homeowner he could not continue to drain his softener onto his beautiful, lush green lawn because it would kill it... as soon as the words came out of my mouth I realized this softener was probably at least 20 years old... Personally I have a brine diversion system at my house, the low tds regenerant water goes to the lawn, the high tds goes to sewage. It has been operating for ten years, the valve failed a year ago and I knew within a week that the lawn was being horribly affected. It took a while to get the sodium/chlorides out of the soil but it all came back eventually. Simply put, no absolute answer on this one.