I've never set a toilet, but I can watch YouTube videos, so I took on the project when after a few months of owning our house, my wife decided we needed new toilets. One toilet had a leaking wax ring (yellowish leak and odor), a handle that would easily stick, and a badly stained toilet seat. With all these problems, we figured a new toilet was in order.
The other toilet needed a new seat, but she wanted it replaced anyways. Bad idea. I soon found out that it had an oval offset flange as described in this thread. You know that saying, "If it ain't broke don't fix it"? Yup, that applies. (btw, we bought the Delta Lila at Home Depot on sale for $107,
http://tinyurl.com/HDDeltaLilah. We've really like them so far.)
This thread was the most helpful and I thought I would add to the conversation. In these pictures, the black flange is mine. I used two wax rings: 1) one totally plain one that I could use for molding, and another one (reinforced with the flack plastic cone) that would be used as a regular wax ring.
With that extra wax ring I...
- cut a third of the seal and used as the "base" of my "dam." I turned it upside down so the flat part was pointing up and the round part was pointing down into the flange. (see pics for "dam" location).
- sealed the perimeter of the flange since I did not caulk around the toilet. I want to guard against shower water that would inevitably seep under toilet.
- sealed all remaining holes on the flange.
- used he remaining wax, I mushed into my hands and used as a mud to seal and secure the dam.
In these pics, I pulled one from another site and one from Hudson above. The other is my finished product before setting the toilet. I hope this helps!