You really need a chain tong. A pipe wrench will egg shape the nipples and make them hard to remove. You can usually use a pipe wrench on the tee as it is thicker and doesn't egg as bad. Heat the tee and cool the nipple.
Get a chain tong for a backup on the nipple this side of the flow meter. Then stick a cheater in the end of of the open pipe with the flanges on it. Lift the cheater and turn the tee 1/2 turn to the left. This will loosen the tee from the flow meter pipe without needing the pipe wrench. Then move the chain tong to the nipple before the flanges and remove the two nipples and flanges. Then the tee will already be a little lose when you have to finish turning it to the left with the pipe wrench.
Also be surprised how much warming it up with just a hammer will help. I had a customer in the oil field one time that claimed he could unscrew any pipe from a fitting with just a hammer. If you beat on it enough with a hammer it will eventually come loose. He proved it to me several times.