Even though the well is 80' deep, a single pipe shallow well jet pump will only work if the water level doesn't get any lower than about 25' deep. Any deeper and you will need a two pipe jet pump or a submersible. The iron won't hurt the submersible anymore than the jet pump. If the water level is less than about 40' you can use one of these submersibles, which can be purchased for about 170 bucks. They work great in a shallow well or a cistern.
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But any pump you buy will not be made as good as the one you got 25 years ago. Jet pump or submersible, the only way to make a pump last is to reduce or eliminate the cycling on and off. Since a 20 gallon pressure tank only holds 5 gallons of water, either type pump will cycle on and off for every 5 gallons used. Adding a Cycle Stop Valve before your pressure tank will not only stop the pump cycling, but will make the pump, tank, and everything else last loner, and will give you strong constant 45 PSI when using water instead of feeling it change from 30 to 50 over and over.