Bought a house with a shower where: (1) the run-of-the-mill showerhead is almost 7 feet above the floor, (2) the off-on control only controls temperature, (3) seller must have taken the water-saver "washer" out. So what comes out is needles of water moving at high pressure, which I don't mind but my wife can't stand. I could put a water-saver thing back in to reduce the flow, but *I* like the high-pressure flow. Without replacing the mixing valve etc, what would be the easiest way to add to this to provide both remperature control *and* flow control? I'm ok buying a new showerhead if need be, this one is sort of rubbish. Is there a shower head with a water-pressure adjuster? Thanks!