A little more info....
4700 Sq feet, two story. There are 4 full bathrooms. Occupancy varies quite a bit. Normally 1-2 on a regular basis, but can jump to 3-4 when some or all the kids come home.... which is often. Water is very hard at 30 GPG....municipal. There was a softener previously installed just after the meter with 1 1/4" supply lines. The old bypass valve is still installed. After the first 25 feet or so from the softener location, all the lines start reducing to 1", 3/4", and 1/2". I don't want to restrict flow unnecessarily. Also, I was under the impression that UPC would not allow a reduction in piping at the softener....which seems silly when a lot of residential valves are ported at 3/4" or 1".