Although that page says you can "use an existing tank with much larger capacity", it will be of absolutely no help. A pressure tank can only deliver water as the pressure decreases. When pressure remains constant, no water ever enters the tank or is drawn from the tank. It doesn’t matter if the tank is the size of a baseball or the size of your car.
You are correct that this type system functions the same when the tank is isolated. For these VFD or VSD type systems, a tank is simply a shock absorber. It gives the system a second to see that you have turned on a faucet before the pump gets started. It also keeps the pressure from spiking extremely high when you turn off the faucet, before the pump gets shut down. The pump is still going to start every time you rinse a toothbrush, the ice maker is filled, or water is used anywhere.
With the SubDrive/MonoDrive type systems, the pump is also going to start 45 times per minute when you are using water for longer periods of time, as when taking a shower or running a sprinkler. This type system is going to start and stop the pump 2700 times for every hour it is running. This adds up to about 2 million cycles per month, and is one of the major reasons for premature system failure. It is still going to do this, no matter the size of pressure tank.
A CSV and a regular pressure switch will solve this problem. It allows the use of the entire amount of water stored in any size pressure tank, and also delivers constant pressure after the pump is finally started. But of course then you would not need the VFD/VSD type system at all.
Manufacturers promote products that help keep the cash flowing. Making your pump system last a long time would be counter productive to their efforts. It is more important to find out what the manufacturer is not telling you, than to simply accept what their glossy ads are telling you. If you were convinced that the VFD system would save you energy, then you have just fallen for another "green lie" that only perpetuates "planned obsolescence". VFD systems do not save energy.