That looks like a 62 gallon tank (model WX251). Even with a CSV I would use a 20 gallon size tank (model WX202) because it is a 3HP pump. But that would cut the tank size by 2/3rds, and with a tankless water heater you would have a lot more room. However, we really need to know more about the pump and/or well. If that is a 18 GPM, 3HP with a static water level of 10' from the surface, you could have up to 250 PSI on the pipe before the CSV. That pressure won't hurt anything as long as the pipe can handle it. You just need to know what kind of pipe is prior to the CSV and how much pressure your particular pump can build.
If you can't find out the depth to water and the GPM of the pump, you can test it. Just put a gauge on a tee before a ball valve and slowly close off the valve. If the pressure exceeds about 160 PSI, don't close the valve any more until you can verify the pressure rating of the pipe. Also if you place the CSV right at the well head, only the pipe in the well will see that kind of pressure, and it should have been designed to handle as much as the pump can produce. After the CSV the pipe will never see more than 60 PSI or so and is not important.
A model number of the pump and a depth to static water level would answer all these questions.
Either way the CSV will be much easier as you would have to pull the pump and replace it with another pump and a three phase motor so it can run on a VFD like the Goulds Balance Flow.