Mathelo, I don't think anyone has boo-hoo'd you suggested use of PEX. It's your idea of using a manifold supplied by a 3/4" line that has branches of both 1/2" & 3/4" that had me questioning your method. That's just a bad idea, and why you wont find a manifold built that way. As far a using 1/2 or 3/4 to you shower, we just don't have enough information to give you an answer. If you are installing a multi head shower, run 1" PEX (eq. to 3/4" copper) to the shower, and tee off of it with 1/2" PEX to everything else. You'll be fine. My house is plumbed with copper trunk & branch, and when I am in the shower in the AM & I feel a slight & momentary drop in pressure, no change in temp though, because I have a pressure balancing valve, It gives me a warm fuzzy feeling because I know my wife is up & at the kitchen sink making the coffee.