For MA code compliance, I guess my best idea is based on your first drawing in post #5, with a few adjustments:
- The 3" line needs to be as low in the joist bay as possible while maintaining slope, to allow the 2" lav drain to cross over via holes in the joists that stay at least 2" clear from the top edge.
- Once the laundry drain enters the joist bay with the 3" line, it needs to drop down to approximately the same elevation as the 3" line, so that it can pass under the lav drain. For connecting to the 3" line with a 2" street 45 into a 3x3x2 wye, the center to center distance between the parallel drains will need to be approximately 4.9".
- Turn the shower trap outlet 90 degrees to point towards the 3" line. Note that the u-bend and outlet elbow of the trap can be rotated independently, the combination does not need to be planar.
- To join the lav to the shower, do it in the joist bay next to the WC joist bay, as the WC joist bay is too crowded. The lav drain does a 180 via a LT 90 into the side entry of a combo, with the shower going straight through the barrel of the combo.
- The shower drain hits a LT90 in the WC joist bay. It wants to end up again about 4.9" center to center from the 3" line, and at at least a slightly higher elevation to comply with 10.16(5)(a)(1). Given the dimensions of a LT90, that could mean you need to adjust its location within the joist bay with a couple 22.5 degree elbows before it joins the 3" line.
Cheers, Wayne