If you don't have silicone grease, get some. I like Molykote 111, but there are others. Use a very light coat on the O-ring. The 5.3 ounce tube has a lot more than the 0.5 ounce tubes at the store. https://www.danco.com/product/0-5-oz-silicone-faucet-grease/ Danco 88693Yea its got a shutoff and bypass in the head. I got some O-Rings on order through Watts but it will be a few weeks. They were noted as "made to order" in their catalog. That's pretty strange. I need to measure one if nothing else. It is a pretty beefy housing and never had an issue getting it open after relieving pressure. Some other ones out there can be a bear.
I wear nitrile gloves when applying to make cleaning my hands easier.
Watts is missing a bet by not advertising that that unit has a bypass built in, IMO.