The friction loss in the long pipe between the two tanks makes the tanks fill at different rates/time. The one closest to the pump will fill first, then the first tank will drain to fill the second tank. There should be no hesitation is pressure when you open a tap. Water is not compressible and 50 PSI at one end means 50 PSI at the other. As soon as a tap is opened the whole line of water starts moving from the pressure in the pressure tank. You may just need to turn up the "pump on" pressure to make up for the elevation difference. The CSV also helps with this as the pump is running continuously when water is being used instead of the pump cycling on and off while water is being used.
There will be a pressure spike at the bottom of the hill when a tap is closed quickly. A riser pipe with a cap or a small bladder tank before the valve being close can help if the tap must be closed quickly.
I have some systems where the pump is thousands of feet away from the house(s) and there is no pressure tank at the house(s).
Again, a CSV can help with pressure spikes and dips as it keeps the pressure constant while using water. The CSV just needs to be installed at the pump, no matter how far away from the houses.
The rule about the pressure being equal at both ends is only true when the water is stationary.
As soon as the water starts flowing the pressure drops, it drops due to the inertia of the water and friction loss in the pipe. The drop caused by inertia is only temporary, the drop due to friction loss lasts as long as the water is moving and when the water is shut off the opposite happens due to inertia, a pressure spike.
The same thing happens if one tap is flowing and another is opened, a temporary drop in pressure due to inertia. This is where it was noticed the most, when one person was in the shower and a toilet was flushed etc, the pressure would drop noticeably for 3-4 seconds then recover a bit. The longer the line the more the pressure will drop due to inertia.
Likewise, in your example to me in another thread about multiple check valves and how the water column above the pump can slam into the column at a check valve, that is only a problem if water has inertia (it does).
When a well pump kicks on it's not pumping it's full rate instantly, it has a small delay as the pump comes up to speed and gets that column of water moving.
Last comparison, water is not unlike electricity, volts is pressure, current (amps) is volume (gpm), resistance is friction loss, inductance is inertia loss. On really long runs of wire, a motor starting up (tap being opened) can cause large voltage drops due to the inductance of the wire. Thus, conductors are upsized to offset the voltage drop. My 30 gal air compressor will start fine plugged into a 15 ft, 12 ga extension cord, but it won't even turn over a full revolution on a 100 ft, 12 ga cord. Because when I open the tap, there is a voltage (pressure) drop.
That drop due to inertia cannot be avoided without adding a tank near the tap (to decrease the amount of water that has to get moving quickly) or boosting pressure to mask the issue.
And yes, you're right that the pressure tank closer to the pump fills faster (sort of). But it's not bad. The tank nearest the pump is downhill and set higher than the tank at the house. When the pump kicks off it will settle back down about 2-3 psi as some of the water is still moving up the hill (through the 1300 ft of pipe) to equalize the pressure. Having 2 tanks decreases the pressure variations at both ends when the pump kicks on and off. The fact of the matter is, the further the distance from the pressure source, the more inertia is a factor in pressure drop because it's dependent upon the mass of water sitting between the pressure source and the taps that are being used.