Brand new owner of a 1979 house in Florida. I have changed valves on plumbing in the past. This one baffles me. When the valve is filly open, only ~20% of the water comes out the shower head. So I remove the handle and the grommet. The brass piece in the back is TIGHT that I wonder if that hex piece (in the back) can actually be turned. Aside from WD-40, any hints on how to get it loose without breaking anything else. I should be able to loosen it, right?