Trying to connect brass j-bend to galvanized elbow to create p-trap. Kitchen sink so 1-1/2". Galvanized elbow is downfiring male threaded and brass has female coupling nut. It looks like the tapered plastic washer just sits flush on the surface of the elbow....shouldn't it snug up into the end of the pipe a little? Is that why I can't get it to stop leaking? Any advice?