LLigetfa
DIYer, not in the trades
0.25 GPM is 360 gallons per day which might be more than your average daily consumption. The holding tank would even out the heavy use days with the lighter use days. For a holding tank to provide decent pressure by gravity, it would need to be around 150 feet higher than the point of use. The weight of water applies 0.43 PSI per foot of rise.The flow rate on the well is estimated at 0.25GPM.
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But we do understand we could use a large holding tank, with some type of switch on the pump that kept it off for a certain amount of time allowing the well to replenish.
A Cycle Sensor will sense when the well runs out of water and will keep the pump off for a preset length of time to allow the well to recover.