From an online search, Culligan specifies the backwash rate will be between 5 to 10 GPM, depending on the specific filter model.
There are various media's normally utilized, applicable to specific filter models. Possible medias that maybe utilized include BIRM, Manganese Greensand, Manganese Dioxide, or Katalox Light. Because Culligan produces some of those medias themselves, Culligan media is often given a unique 'Culligan' name such as 'Cullsorb C', 'Cullsorb B' or 'Cullneu' (acid neutralizer media), even as equivalent medias are often also produced by other manufacturers and marketed using common media names.
The diameter of the media tank will also significantly influence the flow rate needed to backwash whatever 'Iron Breaker' media that maybe contained.
the backwash cycle is driving my psi down to 35 and hanging there....
Not clear what is meant by this statement. Do you mean by "hanging there", the psi doesn't build higher than 35 psi after the Iron Breaker's backwash cycle has concluded? If so, that would suggest a problem with the well or the well pump controls, not necessarily an issue with the filtration unit itself.
What pressure range is your well pump's pressure switch set to?
You said you replaced the p tank and pressure switch, but didn't specify if the pressure gauge and the nipple which supplies pressure to the pressure switch were also replaced?
What type and model of well pump is installed?
Diameter and depth of well? Well's static water level depth and recovery rate?