In being forced to review your thread from 2017, I see it is a Fleck 5600 Econominder installed on a 9" X 48" tank which is appropriate for 1 cubic foot softening resin.
Because it was programmed for 6 lbs salt per regen cycle, the capacity regenerated will be 21,000 grains. I haven't seen where you verified the water hardness value at your location as the previous thread was based on an estimated 10 gpg hardness from your city supply.
If 10 gpg hardness is accuate, then the capacity being regenerated with 6 lbs salt would be 2100 gallons. 1-day usage will need to be calculated and reduced from that 2100 gallons. If there are two people estimated to each use 60 gallons/day, then 2100 - 120 = 1980 gallons to be programmed on the Capacity dial. If there are 3 people, 2100 - 180 = 1920 gallons programmed. As 1980 or 1920 gallons is likely not indicated on the Capacity dial, you may then need to round down to 1950 or 1900 gallons.
You mention you have been regenerating manually. Clarify if you only needed to initiate a manual cycle and the 5600 then completed the cycle itself, or did you need to advance the controller through each phase of regeneration?
Without clarification, I will assune the meter is only not initiating regeneration but is completing the cycle once started.
To confirm the controller gears are not jamming, the meter cable may be unplugged from the paddlewheel meter by pulling the cable straight up from the meter.
Once disconnected from the meter, twisting the cable between your fingers should cause the Capacity dial to rotate. If the Capacity dial rotates freely, the issue is likely a worn or jammed meter.
When removing the cable, verify the cable's metal tip that plugs into the meter remains securely connected to the cable. The tip has been known to become partially detached which will prevent the cable from transferring the twisting force from the meter to the controller.
To check for debris blockage in the meter, fully bypass the softener and manually advance the controller to Backwash to depressurize the softener. Remove the 4 machine screws from the top of the meter housing to lift the cover from the meter housing. Sometimes, there maybe grit or other debris that will prevent the paddlewheel impeller from spinning freely.
Over time, the meter gears can also become worn and can jam and prevent the paddlewheel from spinning. If the meter gears are jammed/worn, a replacement top cover may be purchased separately from the complete meter assembly.