I am still not sure which size pump you have. 13.5 GPM max would mean a 7 GPM pump. But a 7 GPM, 1HP is made to work at 400'+ depth, and yours is only 125' to the pump. At that depth a 10 GPM, 1HP pump could deliver 10 GPM at 60 PSI. A CSV1A could maintain 60 PSI strong and constant after the tank has emptied and the pump is started. With an 80 gallon tank that delivers 21 gallons of water, a 3 GPM shower would see the pressure drop form 70 to 50 for the first 7 minutes. With a 10 gallon size tank the shower pressure would be at the strong 60 PSI within less than a minute. A CSV1A would work well with this pump as there would only be 160 PSI back pressure.
However, if you have a 7 GPM, 1HP pump, the back pressure from a CSV would be 227 PSI and two of the CSV1A valves would be needed to stair step the pressure down to 60 PSI as needed. But the 7 GPM pump would still supply 8-9 GPM, which should be more than sufficient for two showers and some change.
I am pretty sure waiting on the big tank to cycle is why you are seeing low pressure.
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