You might want to confirm that water is coming from the drain outlet.
If it is, a rebuild kit consisting of piston and seals would be the action. A rebuild kit usually also includes a new brine valve, which while would not cause your symptom, presuming the brine tank brine is not full up to the safety float.
I guess another easy test is to make sure the sound goes away when you put the softener into bypass. That would be to confirm the leaking was from some other place.
If you are continuously leaking water, the water meter leak detector indicator could tell you water was running (or your well pump would be cycling). It is hard to imagine some non-water source of such a sound that sounds like water running.
Thanks Reach. There is 1 black drain hose from each tank that combine at a T, then go directly to a pvc pipe. This pvc pipe is solely for the softener drain as it has no other inputs and runs directly to and empties into the larger house waste pvc line near foundation exit.
I also posted this on reddit water treatment, and the seal/puston rebuild was recommended. I also believe I need to replace my media as my water has been quite brown and I could not resolve with iron out. It may be a good time to do both. I should also probably address my carbon tank too, and probably should redo that Fleck 5600 seal kit also while at it (not sure which is leaking).
I haven't monitored the well pump, that is a good idea. I was curious as to if I would be able to detect how much water I'm wasting, this may be a good test.
I am not familiar with the water monitor leak detector. Is this a feature on the Fleck 5600 analogs im missing? I tried to learn as much as I can about these, buts it's been difficult finding good sources of info as a non-industry homeowner