If you're building in a "vapor diffusion vent" with fiber insulation only at the bottom of the wall as a drying path for the concrete, it doesn't matter at all what type of facer there is on the polyiso. If you're doing it without the diffusion path, fiber faced would allow at least some drying through the foam, but the shiny stuff none at all. It's dead-easy to air-seal foil facers (with foil tape), but most paper or fiberglass facers still work OK with housewrap tape.
The diffusion vent area fiber insulation should be full depth, from the foundation wall to wallboard or kickboards, no gaps. Yes, it will wick some moisture, but unless there's active bulk water leaks it probably won't be enough to matter. You'll find out- perfection is unachievable even in new construction. But it's better to risk mold issues at the bottom of the wallboard than in the bottom plates of your structural walls. In Canada they often leave it as a complete gap at the bottom- no fiber insulation, just air, but apparently that's not allowed by your local code. Filling any gaps between the polyiso and drywall with fiber insulation will only help, and it will also improve thermal performance.
With a radiant ceiling you'll need at least the code-minimum R on the band joist, and probably more, since you'll have a "hot spot" at the end of each joist bay where the tubing runs, well above the average indoor temp.
The diffusion vent area fiber insulation should be full depth, from the foundation wall to wallboard or kickboards, no gaps. Yes, it will wick some moisture, but unless there's active bulk water leaks it probably won't be enough to matter. You'll find out- perfection is unachievable even in new construction. But it's better to risk mold issues at the bottom of the wallboard than in the bottom plates of your structural walls. In Canada they often leave it as a complete gap at the bottom- no fiber insulation, just air, but apparently that's not allowed by your local code. Filling any gaps between the polyiso and drywall with fiber insulation will only help, and it will also improve thermal performance.
With a radiant ceiling you'll need at least the code-minimum R on the band joist, and probably more, since you'll have a "hot spot" at the end of each joist bay where the tubing runs, well above the average indoor temp.