not to hurt you, but...
for the record:
information only.
take no action.
There are phonies and game players who sign in, and sometimes they know a lot too. At least one person signs in under multiple aliases and re-phrases recent posts, and it could be anyone! It might even be the man who owns and runs the vBulletin software, just to create flow and content, and thus to support his "client". I have seen a 100% similar pattern over at the JBF site, which also usees vBulletin, and over there the oldtimers interact with the phoney so that he eventually comes 'round to agreeing to buy the current sponsor's products. That is a win-win configuration.
Back to your case, Mr. "artmg". I have seen a lot of people posting that they are old and doing a lot, for free, for people in need. FINE. So be it. You are an awfully feisty fighter. Not what I have seen in my long life, when someone is a 72-year-old. Hmm.
But still, you do know a lot, and you are worth having around, in my opinion. You are not making us work uselessly, spinning our wheels just so that the sponsor can get plugged and recommended, and not for the purpose of misinformation either. (I have also seen that happen!)
Just please remember that volunteers like to be appreciated, and a $10 - $15 difference in this post is what sparked a normal human reaction, in addition to whatever you wrote in the other posts... I really really hope that the little old lady has been consulted about your cutting corners, and that you have spent a lot of time educating her on all options and decisions. For free. And later, when she starts collecting rent, I hope you help her understand what it means to be a landlady and how to deal with tenants. That work is for free, too, since that is what she has come to expect. Let her have the new money coming in. It'll enable her to have a better lifestyle (keep her house, for one thing).
Other people make money while we help for free. Ours is not to question why, our is to do or die. Welcome to the crowd. Helping people in need is just fine by me.
david