Man, on his own, looks out for himself. Society, when operating well, tries to look out for society. Government wouldn't be needed if everyone had similar moral compasses. IF there weren't thieves, we may not need police, or locks, or insurance, or maybe that gun many seem to covet. Short-term gains often do not take into account long-term consequences. Certainly, not all rules and regulations are ideal, but they do serve a purpose. You may or may not agree with that purpose. SOmeone brought up seatbelts...getting flung out of a car during an accident might save your life in a one in a million situation, but staying in there would save you 999.999 times out of that million. What is the cost to society if you die or are severely injured? It's more than just the individual's cost...society pays from supporting you, your family for maybe the rest of your life. And, over time, as research and history discovers new trends, we find that what we thought we knew was not correct (look at the plumbing or electrical codes that have changed, and why over the years). I would have no problem rescinding a rule or regulation that history has proven is no longer valid for its original justification. But, if that was written to support some special interest group at the expense of the majority, IMHO, it should go. That can get quite controversial when the risk/cost is long-term. Then, one must evaluate what that actual expense is; is it a convenience, or an actual outright cost. What is the heart of some of these issues is the phrase "inalienable rights" as stated in our founding documents. Over time, those are changing in ways some do not agree with, at least in their world-view. What is a real cost to society? All heady thoughts, with some significant ramifications. One needs to try to evaluate them from all viewpoints and try to reach a consensus. Our country was founded partly on the grounds that we didn't want to be persecuted for our religious practices...we need to extend that to all, not just Christians. Similar 'rights' can be applied to other things as well.
The 'me' attitude is taking over, when the 'we' one needs to apply. And, that includes not only the 1%ers, but the rest of us, too. Defining 'fair' to all is really difficult...one often has to give up something for the benefit of us as a whole. The key is compromise and discussions, not trying to ram it down the throats of the rest of us without that. You think that the gerrymandering of districts is fair? Only if you want to retain control!
FWIW, the issue is, that if a state controls things, verses the federal, while something may not affect that state, it affects other adjoining states (like air pollution or water pollution that does not know borders). Put a dirty power plant near the border, and its pollution doesn't affect that state, but does the one next to it. Without some federal control, things could get messy, and fairly quickly. From the world viewpoint, cleaning up the air is a major problem all have to consider...the pollution in China is affecting the western US, and is a measurable component of their current pollution levels. Without both a national and international agreements, there will be little change. We need both national and international cooperation...leaving it to the states is potentially problematic.