Update, if anyone cares...
I considered 3 approaches:
#1 water softener only
#2 filox filter + softener
#3 katalox light + softener
Ultimately, I went with option #3. I have a standalone katalox 1.5cf filter plus a 1.5 cf sotener. I did not like the backwash requirements of the Filox and liked that the KL would deal with a several of the convenience issues I had with my water.
These were purchased through dittohead. Allan was very helpful and willing to discuss the system. The system has been running since June 21.
Background: I'm doing a full renovation on my house (purchased 9 months ago). All plumbing from the well and in the house is new.
Install: was very easy, especially since I am all PEX and had a standpipe ready nearby. System came pre-programmed, so I just had to set hardness and time of day. The units fit perfectly in a space I had setup in my utility room. The black resin tanks and blue LCD displays make the units look almost space aged. Per recommendations, I ran the first Katalox backwash for about an hour.
Performance: The first issue I had with my water was brown/orange staining in toilets in less than a week. This is 100% resolved. I installed a new toilet about 1 week after the water system and the tank is still pristine. Softening took some dialing in. My last water test was last summer and indicated 20 grain hardness and it appears that my hardness is much closer to 10 grain right now (based on test strip measurements and water quality observations). My original pH was 8.2. Currently it's 9+, but that's measured via a pool test strip (I'm told this isn't overly accurate). Softener and filter are sized for 1" pex inlet. I've observed no reductions in flow rate throughout the house.
Odors: I originally had a low to moderate sulfur odor, especially if water was dispensed by a sprayer (shower head, sink sprayer). This odor appears to be eliminated. When I first set the system up, I had a strong new odor. My wife described it as fishy, but I'm not sure if I subscribe to that label. I might say it was almost plastic-y. Either way, I was told this is typical of KL and would go away. I ran many backwashes; the odor appears to be much less (or I have adapted to it). I really only notice it when I brush my teeth.
Summary: I am generally pleased with my system. The startup and initial "break in" of the Katalox is a bit annoying, especially when my wife was looking for an immediate "AHA" moment w/ perfect water. We are both pleased with thew water at this point. I am only running a basic refrigerator filter for ice and drinking water.
Tim