1. Get one or two pressure gauges with a garden hose (GH) connector.
2. Put a pressure gauge on the hot water drain during your symptoms and record.
3. Put a pressure gauge on a cold line during symptoms. Your laundry tub or at least the connection that your washer uses would have a GH thread. Significant differences in pressure, during the same symptoms, between two spots will indicate a blockage. Your outdoor garden hose spigot would be another place you could check. If the cold water line's pressure was much higher than the WH pressure, measure the pressure of the hot at the laundry area.
4. When doing an update, it is better to add to the existing thread that has the background info.
I am not a plumber.