Here is what you do, I don't understand why you are not following the logic given here.
You need a high pressure PRV < Pressure Reducing Valve, you are dealing with pressure that might be spiking from use from other establishments in the area.
Install the PRV after the dual check valve. Install a 4 gallon expansion tank between the shutoff on the cold water inlet and the top of the tank. Jog that tee perpendicular to the pipe entering the tank, turn up a 90 and then a 3/4 FIP to allow better support of the tank. If you have PEX running straight into the tank you will have to hard pipe at least a foot out of the tank to get stability for the tank, reconnect to PEX. They make all the connections to do this. Set your pressure of the expansion tank to the working pressure you set the PRV at, Watts dictates this procedure on their website and the paperwork that comes with the tank.
*** Do not remove the dual check, it is required for a reason***
You are flirting with disaster with the high pressure you are dealing with. The only reason I am mentioning the high pressure PRV is because they are only $35 more than the regular ones and your range can accept surges a great deal better. It's worth the money.
If you have your water heater temp set up higher than 120 degrees this may definitely cause the high pressure along with the absence of an expansion tank.
DO IT NOW, YOU ARE ENDANGERING YOUR LIFE