So if the goal is 60 second run time to fill the tank why is the 34 gallon tank I noted with a draw down a little over 10 gallons not want I want for a 10 gpm pump? The watersource site said this was the tank that matched the pump, etc.
Look at the WX205 which is listed as a 34 gallon tank. It should be OK. Now most of the time that 3/4 HP pump will be pumping more than 10 GPM, but close enough, I think.
But you said a xtroll (which I presumed was Well-X-Trol -- top name in the business) 25 gallon tank. The WX-202XL is a 26 gallon tank with a drawdown of 7 or 8 gallons. Undersized, but not terribly so. Now if you are thinking of a different tank, what is it?
Regarding the Psidekick, which is a CSV+tank tee+4.5 gallon pressure tank+gauge+pressure gauge combo, I did not know they dribble -- do you have a cite for that? The CSV does look like one more thing to adjust initially, but it does not seem hard. That said, I have not actually seen one. I just have one well with one pressure tank and one pump.